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The Insiders Secret To Showing Love

Posted on 31 March 2010 by admin

So you’ve been going out for a awhile and you have passed the love test to know wether or not you are in love. Now your relationship has kind of hit the ole regular routine.

Here are the top seven ways to show your love and get the romance back into your relationship.

1. Have a pad of sticky notes and leave love notes and some little thoughtful gift like candy. Leave the note where the love of your life is certainly to find it.

2. With the invention of the internet we have become reliant on emails. Try this. Go to the store and buy an actual greeting card expresses your true feelings for your partner. I guarantee this will put a spark into your next rendevouz. It’s a nice surprise to find something other than bills in the mail.

3. Call and leave a love not on your partner’s voicemail. Make it a well thought out “love note”.

You will get a guaranteed phone call in just a few minutes. The secret here is to call and leave an actual voicemail. This works like magic.

4. How about a nice picnic lunch by the beach or in the mountains or just some little gets away spot. One of my favorite places is right by a running river. You get the relaxing sound of the water running and a nice peaceful day out to explore each other and get caught up with each other. You’ll be surprised how well this works to put a little romance into the routine.

5. One really nice thing to do is to take your boyfriend or girlfriend to some of the places you used to hang out at as a kid. Remember the old pizza place you used to hang out at before you went to the skate rink. This is a terrific way to let your sweetheart really get to know you.

6. If you are always going out to dinner or the movies plan on a nice romantic evening at home. Rent a movie and get his or her favorite snacks. Get a movie like The Proposal” or “Notebook” an nice finishing touch on this is to buy one red rose along with their favorite snack. Sometimes we get so caught up in the noise of the world that we tend to block each other out.

I hope that you find the time to fit some of these things into your love life. You’ll find that you don’t have to agonize over ways to be romantic again. With a little more research you’ll find many more of these little things you can do to spice it up a bit.

The relationship quiz that could end it all.

Posted on 31 March 2010 by admin

So you’ve been dating a while or are considering having a long term relationship with that person. You’ve been together a few months and now the newness of the relationship is starting to wear off. You know the I can’t stop thinking about him all the time, part. Or she just has my head dancing all the time. This is also known as the infatuation. Every relationship new or old has had it. It’s the part of the relationship that made you two fall in love with each other.

Now it’s gone. Now you’re asking yourself is this person the right person for me? Below is the aiz that could end the relationship or bring the fire to an intense heat of love. Be ready for the answers you may not like what you are about to hear.

1. What is important to you in a marriage situation?

This is a definite thought question. Watch his body language as he is thinking of an answer. Is the answer honest and though our or does it come off as an answer he thinks you want to hear?

2. What are your long term goals for your life.

Most of us women want to know if those goals have any mention of us in them. If those goals

are all geared towards work or something outside the relationship we may want to move on.

3. Where do you see our relationship in the next 3-5 years?

Make sure you have been together a while before you ask your man this question. The thought

Of being with somebody in 5 years can be a pressure question and scare your guy off. Of course if that happens then you two are finding out early on whether or not this relationship will be long term.

4. What is it about me that you wish you could change?

This will give him the opportunity to get his pet peeves out into the open. However  this shouldn’t be a session where he’s going to rail you for the next hour.

5. What are your thoughts on money?

Is he a spender. If he has been pretty loose with his money during the infatuation phase by showering you with gifts etc getting the answer to this question is paramount because if he actually is a freewheeling spender he’s got a stash somewhere or he’s going to be broke in a short amount of time.

6. What caused your last relationship to end?

You’re looking for a well thought out answer. If he begins to pass all the blame on to his last mate as to the end of the relationship he’ll be doing the same thing when yours ends. Look for him to put some of the blame on himself for the most truthful answer.

7. How do you feel about our relationship when we’re not together?

This will tell you if he is secure with himself because if he says that he can’t stand to think about you being with another man when all you do is go have lunch with the girls you have a big time controller on your hands. Better to find out right now.

These questions may be best answered when you two are not together. Take the questions and work on them alone and separate then make time to get together to go over your answers.

Remember to keep in mind this short relationship quiz is only a start to get you two to communicate openly about things that you don’t talk about in your everyday conversations.

Love Tests

Posted on 21 March 2010 by admin

1. You are walking to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s house. There are two roads to get there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but is very plain and boring. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way, but takes quite a while to reach your loved one’s house.

Which path do you choose? Short or long?

2. On the way, you see two rose bushes. One is full of white roses. One is full of red roses. You decide to pick 20 roses for your boyfriend/girlfriend.

What color combination do you choose?
(Any combination including all one color is fine.)

3. You finally get to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s house. You ring the bell and the maid answers. You can ask the maid to please get your loved one, or you may go get them yourself.

Which action do you take? Ask the maid or do it yourself?

4. Now, you go up to your girlfriend/boyfriends room. No one is there. You can leave the roses by the window sill, or on the bed.

Where do you put the roses? Bed or window?

5. Later, its time for bed. You and your loved one go to sleep, in separate rooms. You wake up in the morning, and go to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s room to check up on him/her. You enter the room:

Is he/she awake or sleeping?

6. It’s time to go home now, and you start to head back. You can take either road home now: The plain, boring one that gets you home fast; or the curvy, sight-filled road that you can just casually take your time with.

Which road do you choose? Short or long?

Analysis

1. Which road do you choose to take to your love’s house?

The roads represent your attitude towards falling in love. If you chose the short one, you fall in love quickly and easily.

If you chose the long one, you take your time and do not fall in love easily.

2. What combination of roses do you choose to give your love?

The number of red roses represent how much you expect to give in a relationship. The number of white roses represent how much you expect in a relationship. Therefore, if a person chose all red with one white, he/she gives 90% in the relationship but expects to receive only 10% back.

3. Do you ask the maid to get your love, or do you do it yourself?

This question shows your attitude in handling relationship problems. If you asked the maid to get your loved one, then you may beat around the bush, maybe asking a third party to intervene. Avoidance of problems runs high.

If you went and got your loved one yourself, then you are pretty direct. If there is a problem, you confront it and deal with it. You want to work it out right away.

4. Where do you put the roses? On the window sill or on the bed?

The placement of the roses indicates how often you’d like to see your boyfriend/girlfriend. Placing the roses on the bed means you need lots of reassurance in the relationship, and you’d want to see your loved one every day, if possible.

Placing the roses by the window show that you don’t expect or need to see your loved one too often.

5. Do you find your love asleep or awake?

Finding your boyfriend/ girlfriend asleep: You accept your loved one the way they are.

Finding them awake: You expect him/her to change for you.

6. Which road do you choose to go home?

The short and long roads now represent how long you stay in love. If you chose the short one, you fall out of love easily.

If you chose the long one, you tend to stay in love for a long time.

Is He Worth My Time?

Posted on 21 March 2010 by admin


Have you ever met someone who you thought is worth your time and then you realized it was a mistake? Yep, I know. You feel so bad about it, right? Don’t worry about it. They are many people out there who make the same mistake over and over again. Either way, you can’t blame them for trying to find a special someone. People weave through all the bad ones in order to get to the good ones. In order to do that, you should look for signs that will make you realize that this person is worth your time. For instance:

1) Talk is cheap. They have to prove what they say. There are many people out there that will just not do what they say. If all they do is talk the talk and not walk the walk, then move on.

2) Strong Chemistry. If you have a strong bond with each other from the start, follow your intuition and go with the flow.

3) Past relationships. I know most people don’t like to mention their past relationships, but this is a good way to know the person’s past behaviors.

Overall, it varies for people from time to time. If you see those simple signs, you will know that this person is worth your time.

Single Again?

Posted on 21 March 2010 by admin

Wait a minute, what’s wrong? Why are you single again? You can’t find someone
who is suitable to your needs? The Chemistry wasn’t there anymore?

I met people who been through that. They feel it’s not necessary to continue a relationship because the chemistry wasn’t there anymore. In my opinion, their intention to break off the relationship wasn’t a selfish move. I rather say this is a good move because you don’t want to continue a relationship that will not work. The longer you wait–you will hurt the person’s heart.

Now, if you are the victim of this mess. Don’t worry about it. They might have a good reason why they broke off the relationship. It’s for your own good because you don’t want to end up being heart broken.

For some reason, people just cheat in this situation. I think it’s dumb and stupid, and people will judge your commitment to others. Like the saying goes, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”.

Anyways, back to the topic. If you are single again, be prepared to be back in the market after you feel it’s time to be with someone else. For some it might be hard to meet new people and for some it might easy. Just don’t give up. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. Just don’t go on the wrong sea! (Hehe…ok, that was lame).